So, I recently started working my first job. I went through several rounds of interviews, notified references, and all of the things that come with trying to get a job. It was such an anxiety-provoking experience, but I got a call that I had finally landed a job. And I was elated.
There are, however, lots of other emotions that come with getting a first job. One common thing that I hear is "imposter syndrome". It's easy to feel like we don't deserve something or we're putting on an act and the ruse will one day be up. However, remember that you landed the job because you did have what they were looking for, because of your hard work, skills, and talent. You deserve to be in the spaces you're in. I felt this for a fleeting moment. The people that I work with have done a great job of making me feel valued and like I belong where I am. They always encourage, support, and help me. That helped me to get past that feeling. I also think about what I have to offer and contribute. I encourage you to do the same.
I've also heard about the struggles of staying engaged for eight hours (or so) a day. I can attest to that being challenging because there are highs and lows in jobs. There are days where you're constantly going from the moment you get to the office or wake up to work from home. There are also days that things are a lot slower and you're watching the time. I try to plan ahead for meetings or things that are coming up, catch up on tasks that I had put on the back burner because the deadline wasn't as crucial as some others. I also try and come up with new ideas and problem solve in downtime. I try to learn new skills and think about things that I want to accomplish. There are definitely ways to stay engaged and keep yourself going.
Having a new job, my first job, has been rewarding. I have learned a lot of new skills and been able to connect with people. I have learned a lot from people within my job and my position has challenged me. I feel as though I have grown, which is the goal. It has had its challenges, but that's to be expected. Take care of yourself in any position. Continue to thrive and grow and challenge yourself. And remember, you are there for a reason and you deserve it. You've got this!
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